Welcome to my corner of the internet! I am a submissive, polyamorous female in my thirties, and this is where chronicle my unconventional lifestyle. I aim to provide a mix of informed articles on the life of a submissive, interspersed with factual and fictional stories and fantasies. I would like to create a blog that is thought provoking and light-hearted, educational and sexy, entertaining and emotive. I hope you enjoy reading it as much as I enjoy writing – and living – it.

I define my kinky side as a part of my sexuality – an inherant quality that makes me, me. I identify as a submissive and, although I have been known to switch, that is just for fun – being a submissive is as much a part of me as the fact that I have blue eyes. I don’t know why, but I have always been this way. Contrary to what many outsiders believe, I am not from a broken home, and I have an extremely loving and supportive family. I am mentally stable and reasonably intelligent. It just happens that I have always found comfort in submission. And I see no reason not to embrace it.

I believe that love is love, whether that be inter- or intra-gender, between two or many. I don’t discriminate. Personally, I am pansexual and have enjoyed relationships with men, women and non-binary people. I am happiest when I know that my partners and I can explore relationships with others as well as with each other, and I like seeing the different qualities that different people can bring to relationships with my significant others. At the moment, I have both a “Daddy” and a dominant, and I have play relationships with others too. Do you have questions? Are you curious? Would you like to live vicariously through someone who is a little bit different? Stick with me, kid, I’ll give you an education…